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What is Enlightenment

January 4th, 2010

Andrew Cohen has a magazine with this title. He claimed that he was enlightened but said that he had doubts about it all the time. So his definition of it included having doubts about himself. I am certain that I am not enlightened and have no doubts about it. But I am also certain about what enlightenment is. It is available to practically every person, but it is optional. This article could also be called East Meets West.

In psychology, they have the flow experience. There are a few books on it like, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience (© 1990) by Dr. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (last name pronounced “cheeks sent me high”). Dr. Seligman (former president of American Psychological Association) calls him “one towering figure in the social sciences. ” The first line of this book says “Twenty-three hundred years ago Aristotle concluded that, more than anything else, men and women seek happiness. “

In his book, Authentic Happiness (2003), Dr. Seligman (author of a dozen books on psychology) describes the flow experience like this: “When does time stop for you? When do you find yourself doing exactly what you want to be doing, and never wanting it to end? Is it painting, or making love, or playing volleyball, or talking before a group, or rock climbing, or listening sympathetically to someone else’s troubles?”

The back of the book, Flow, says “These investigations have revealed that what makes experience genuinely satisfying is a state of consciousness called flow– a state of concentration so focused that it amounts to absolute absorption in an activity. ” Absolute is a powerful word. It is used to describe God. People can experience the flow at different degrees. I would play volleyball for hours and feel it during the whole time but at different degrees. Sometimes for a few minutes I would experience the flow experience to the infinite degree. This is the greatest thing that a human being can feel.

A woman had a near death experience and wrote a book about it. She said that while she was dead she felt something nicer than she ever felt when she was alive. This was her encounter with the flow experience. To feel it to the infinite degree, feels totally perfect. It is common for people to never experience it while alive. Although, the most ancient scriptures known to man say that people feel it while in deep sleep. This flow experience to the infinite degree is at the core of a human being. During it, time stops. I would have a feeling of eternal peace while feeling it. Eternal is a powerful word, but it was a renowned psychologist whose book describes the flow as absolute. When you feel it, you know that it is the secret of life or the meaning of life. It is supreme. It is being one with the universe. So I would think about how if I could play volleyball all the time, without stopping, for the rest of eternity, then I would be really happy. Of course that is impossible. But it can be felt while doing nothing at all. Millions of people around the world do meditation where they are doing nothing at all, physically.

A Harvard Medical School professor (Herbert Benson, M. D. ) has written a classic book on meditation called The Relaxation Response (1975) which is now being taught in many medical schools. This book teaches that the very purpose of technology is to make life easier so that people will experience less stress. But it explains that it is not working since people are now feeling more stress than ever before. So enlightenment is the ultimate state that a human can achieve. An enlightened person is someone who is in the flow experience to the infinite degree all the time. This is enlightenment.

According to those ancient scriptures, you will be feeling that infinite feeling the next time you go to sleep even though you do not remember it when you wake up. Several years ago,  the singer Mariah Carey had a nervous breakdown and she said that it was due to lack of sleep. Some people have asked if someone could be enlightened and not know it. So you can see from the above that there is no doubt at all that you would know it if you were enlightened. I would also read non-fiction books for hours since I would feel the flow experience, but not to the infinite degree.

Where does this experience come from? It does not come from the brain. The science of cosmology teaches that if someone wants to know how long it took before the physical world was created or how far do things extend beyond the physical universe, these questions have no meaning. Time and space are only attributes of the physical universe, not the non-physical universe.

You exist in the non-physical universe. Do you only exist there after you die? No, time has no existence there. So you could say that in that world or universe– you are eternal. You have no beginning and no end. That is where the flow experience comes from. A very famous American psychologist, Abraham Maslow (1908-1970), said “I can feel guilty about the past, apprehensive about the future, but only in the present can I act. The ability to be in the present moment is a major component of mental wellness. ” Copyright 2007 by Chuck Bluestein. Learn how to Be Happier With Less Stress

How to Look Dazzling on the Beach Without Really Trying

January 2nd, 2010

It’s summer once again and you know that it is the perfect time for you to show off your new buff body. After looking at your body in front of the mirror, you feel pleased that the long hours you spent working out in the gym and the countless weight loss programs you endured have finally paid off. Your slim arms, flat tummy and gorgeous legs are really something that you can be proud to parade on the beach this summer. Although a well-sculpted body is really a factor in making you a dazzling beach babe, you also need to think about your overall look, including your accessories and makeup. If you want to be the star of the beach, read on and follow these tips:Find A Perfect BikiniEven if you have a body that is to die for, you still have to take time choosing a bikini or swimsuit that will suit your size, body shape and activities. If you plan to simply laze around on the beach, then a string bikini will be all right. A high leg bikini is also more appropriate for people who have short legs. However, if you plan to play beach volleyball, swim your heart out on the sea and do other beach activities, you must ensure that the straps on your top are firm and secure. You don’t want your precious ones to peak out or loll out of your top while playing volleyball or swimming with the dolphins. Don’t Be Afraid To AccessorizeMany think that beach outfit should be minimal. Although this is all right, there are actually a number of tasteful accessories you can bring to the beach. A pair of cute sunglasses and some shell necklaces or wooden bangles can add a little spunk to your otherwise boring beach outfit. Finding the right flip-flops could also make or break your look. Have A TanFor some people, going to the beach is a chance to get that most coveted tan. But this may not be a very safe thing to do, especially because of the ill-effects of overexposure to the sun. What you can do to keep away from overexposure to the sun yet avoid looking pasty and pale on the beach is to use tan spray. Do not overdo it though because you don’t want to look like a cooked crustacean. Keep Your Nails CleanA manicure set is a must when you are going to the beach. When you are walking on the sand, playing beach volleyball, or parasailing with your friends, your nails can surely get dirty or, worse, chipped. Thus, you should always be ready to trim your nails and repair your polish. It would be better if you stick to clear nail polish for a cleaner and fresher looking nails and toes on the beach. Makeup EssentialsYour beach vacation does not mean you have to build sandcastles or stay on the beach 24/7. Since you will surely go to restaurants or hang out in bars while you are there, better be prepared with your makeup essentials. Waterproof foundation and concealer are a must, so are water resistant mascara and eyeliner. For more color, cheek and lip stains are also a good choice. By the way, you can also find lip-gloss that has sunscreen to protect your lips from being chapped and dry under the heat of the sun. Don’t Forget Your EyesYou probably know that sun protection for your face and body is necessary to keep your skin from getting burned by harsh sunrays. A sun protection factor of over 50 that shields you from both UVB and UVA rays is ideal. However, for your eyes, you also need to look for a sun block that is gentle enough on the area surrounding the eyes. Also, do not forget to bring an eye cream that helps get rid of puffy eyes and dark circles after nights of drinking and having fun with friends. One eye product that you can use is Eyevive. Simply visit http://www. eyevive. com/ for more information.

Wet N Wild – Features of Americas Number One Water Park

January 1st, 2010

<!– @page { size: 21cm 29. 7cm; margin: 2cm } P { margin-bottom: 0. 21cm } –>Wet n wild is the perfect place for fun lovers. The entire family of yours will enjoy this water park with full pleasure. The variety of rides and the impeccable service that caters to the visitors are amazing. The incredible tube rides and other wet water adventures are all must see attractions. The newly innovated water ride Disco H2O is the most appealing attractions among other old water rides of Wet n Wild. The adventures like the tubes filled with air are the most exciting experience that you can have in Wet n wild water park. Amusement Business magazine has honored wet n wild as the nation’s best attended water parks since the onset of their survey. Experience the fun filled day with your family and see the Surf Lagoon that is 17,000 square foot simulated beach. Like wise Wild one, March 5, the Surge, etc are the rides which have its distinctive features. Since 1977 wet n wild has been hosting millions of tourists till today. The founder of this first major water park in the United States is George Millay Who is also the creator of Sea World. This enchanting water park is not only filled with thrilled rides but also it has many kids’ rides such as Bubble up and Kid’s park. Other activities apart from water rides are Lazy River, Volleyball and wave Pool Surf Lagoon. The Lazy River is a beautiful river and along its sides you can see the beautiful trees and flowers. The waterfalls are also a panoramic view of this area where old boat docks and rustic billboards are available. To experience the exciting four foot waves of Surf Lagoon rent a tube. However, on the beach sand there is a regulation-size volleyball court for playing Volleyball. To sum up, wet n wild can be described as the best water park of America. And to know about more deeply it is necessary to be there in Orlando to explore the great features of Wet n wild which make it America’s number one water park.